Early Definitions
早期的定义
Many definitions have been given of the term and I myself have set forth several. More than twenty years ago (though not published until 1959) I attempted to give a highly rigorous definition as part of a formal statement of my concepts and theory. It went as follows:
共情这个词有过很多定义，我自己也提过好几个定义。20多年前（尽管直到1959年才发表），我尝试给出一个非常严格的定义，作为正式陈述我的概念和理论的一个部分。这个定义是这样的：
The state of empathy, or being empathic, is to perceive the internal frame of reference of another with accuracy and with the emotional components and meanings which pertain thereto as if one were the person, but without ever losing the 'as if’ condition. Thus it means to sense the hurt or the pleasure of another as he senses it and to perceive the causes thereof as he perceives them, but without ever losing the recognition that it is as if I were hurt or pleased and so forth. It this 'as if' quality is lost, then the state is one of identification (
共情的状态，或者说共情，是准确地觉察另一个人的内在参考框架，这种觉察带有情感的成分和含义，好像你就是那个人，但又永远不失去“好像”的境界。因此，这意味着去感受另一个人感受到的痛苦或快乐，就像他感受到的那样；并去觉察其原因，就像他觉察到的那样，但是永远不失去这一认识：好像我是痛苦或快乐的，如此等等。如果失去了这个“好像”，那么这种状态就是一种认同(Rogers, 1959, pp. 210-211. See also Rogers, 1957)。
Experiencing as a Useful Construct
体验作为一个有用的概念
To formulate a current description I would want to draw on the concept of experiencing as formulated by Gendlin (1962). This concept has enriched our thinking in various ways as will be evident in this paper. Briefly it is his view that at all times there is going on in the human organism a flow of experiencings to which the individual can turn again and again as a referent in order to discover the meaning of his experience. He sees empathy as pointing sensitively to the "felt meaning" which the client is experiencing in this particular moment, in order to help him focus on that meaning and to carry it further to its full and uninhibited experiencing.
为了制定一个当前的描述，我想利用由简德林（1962）提出的体验的概念。这个概念以许多方式丰富了我们的思维，我们在这篇文章中将会看到。简单地说，他的观点是，在人体组织中一直发生着源源不断的体验，个体为了发现他的体验的意义，可以将其作为一个指示物反复地回顾。他将共情视为敏感地指向来访者在这个特点时刻所体验到的“感受意义”，是为了帮助他聚焦于那个意义，并将其带到完全的和不受拘束的体验。
An example may make more clear both the concept and its relation to empathy. A man in an encounter group has been making vaguely negative statements about his father. The facilitator says, "it sounds as though you might be angry at your father." He replies, "No, I don't think so." "Possibly dissatisfied with him?" "Well, yes, perhaps," (said rather doubtfully). "Maybe you're disappointed in him." Quickly the man responds, "That's it! I am disappointed that he's not a strong person. I think I've always been disappointed in him ever since I was a boy."
举个例子也许会更清楚这个概念及其与共情的关系。一个男人在会心团体中对他父亲做了暧昧的消极表达。团体引导者说：“听起来好像你是对你父亲生气。”他回答道：“不，我不这么认为。”“也许是对他感到不满？”“嗯，是的，也许。”（说得相当地含糊）。“也许你是对他感到失望。”这个男人很快回应：“就是这样！让我感到失望，他不是一个坚强的人。我认为我总是对他失望，从我还是孩子时起就这样。”
Against what is the man checking these terms for their correctness? Gendlin's view, with which I concur, is that he is checking them against the ongoing psycho-physiological flow within himself to see if they fit. This flow is a very real thing, and people are able to use it as a referent. In this case "angry" doesn't match the felt meaning at all; "dissatisfied" comes closer, but is not really correct; "disappointed" matches it exactly, and encourages a further flow of the experiencing, as often happens.
这个男人检查这些词语的正确性时依靠的什么？简德林的观点是，对此我表示同意，他在检查它们时依靠的是他自己内部正在进行的心理-生理流动，来确认它们是否匹配。这种流动是非常真实的东西，人们能够运用它作为一个指示物。在这种情况下，“生气”与这种感受根本不匹配；“不满”更为接近些，但还不完全正确；“失望”则完全匹配，并促进了这种体验的进一步流动，就如常常发生的那样。
A Current Definition
现在的定义
With this conceptual background, let me attempt a description of empathy which would seem satisfactory to me today. I would no longer be terming it a "state of empathy," because I believe it to be a process, rather than a state. Perhaps I can capture that quality.
根据这个概念的背景，我想对共情进行一个新的令人满意的描述。我不会再把它定义为一种“共情的状态”，因为我相信，与其说是一种状态，不如说共情是一个过程。也许我可以描述出共情的这种特征。（但愿我可以描述出(state of empathy is a process rather a state)这种特性/特征。我是这么理解的）
The way of being with another person which is termed empathic has several facets. It means entering the private perceptual world of the other and becoming thoroughly at home in it. It involves being sensitive, moment to moment, to the changing felt meanings which flow in this other person, to the fear or rage or tenderness or confusion or whatever, that he/she is experiencing. It means temporarily living in his/her life, moving about in it delicately without making judgments, sensing meanings of which he/she is scarcely aware, but not trying to uncover feelings of which the person is totally unaware, since this would be too threatening. It includes communicating your sensings of his/her world as you look with fresh and unfrightened eyes at elements of which the individual is fearful. It means frequently checking with him/ her as to the accuracy of your sensings, and being guided by the responses you receive. You are a confident companion to the person in his/her inner world. By pointing to the possible meanings in the flow of his/her experiencing you help the person to focus on this useful type of referent, to experience the meanings more fully, and to move forward in the experiencing.
与他人实现共情的方法涉及好几个方面。共情意味着进入到他人私密的感知世界，并且在其中感到自在。这包括对于另一个人的内心中发生变化的感知意义（felt meaning）和这个人正在经历的感觉，无论是恐惧、愤怒、脆弱、困惑还是其他感觉，时刻保持敏感。这意味着暂时进入另一个人的生活中，在其中小心地移动而不作任何评价，感受他/她很少察觉到的感受，但却不去揭开这个人完全不曾察觉到的感觉——因为这会变得过于具有侵略性。这包括当你用新奇而不惊讶的双眼去审视令这个人感到害怕的因素时，你要与之交流你对他或她的世界所产生的感受。这意味着需要去经常与这个人核对你对他/她的感受正确与否，并从得到的回应中得到引导。你是他/她内心世界的一名自信的朋友。通过指出他/她的经历可能代表的意义，你帮助这个人关注于这一有效的指示对象、去更完整地感受这些意义，并且在体验的过程中前进。
To be with another in this way means that for the time being you lay aside the views and values you hold for yourself in order to enter another's world without prejudice. In some sense it means that you lay aside your self and this can only be done by a person who is secure enough in himself that he knows he will not get lost in what may turn out to be the strange or bizarre world of the other, and can comfortably return to his own world when he wishes.
通过这种方法与他人接触意味着，在这段时间内你需要把你拥有的观点和价值观放在一边，从而不带偏见地进入另一个人的世界。从某种程度上说，你需要把你自己搁置于一边。而这只有某一种人才能做到，这个人非常具有安全感，并且知道自己不会在他人的可能会有些陌生或奇怪的世界中迷失，而之后又能从容地回到自己的世界中。
Perhaps this description makes clear that being empathic is a complex, demanding, strong yet subtle and gentle way of being.
或许这个描述说清楚了一点：共情是一种复杂的、要求高的、强烈的却又是细微而温和的存在方式。（感觉这句翻译的不好，大家给提提建议吧）
Operational Definitions
操作性定义
The foregoing description is hardly an operational definition, suitable for use in research. Yet such operational definitions have been formulated and widely used. There is the Barrett-Lennard Relationship Inventory, to be filled out by the parties to the relationship, in which empathy is defined operationally by the items used. Some of the items from this instrument, indicating the range from empathic to non-empathic, follow:
前述的描述难以成为一种操作性定义，也不适合在研究中使用。其实共情的操作性定义早已形成并被广泛使用。如巴瑞特-伦纳德关系问卷（Barrett-Lennard Relationship Inventory），这个问卷由处于一段关系中的双方来填写，而共情程度由问卷中的条目在操作上进行定义。这个问卷中的一些条目表明了从共情至不共情的范围，如下：
He appreciates what my experience feels like to me.
他理解我的经历给我的感觉。（他能够领会我所体验到的，正如我的感觉。）
He understands what I say from a detached, objective point of view.
他可以理解我在一种超然、客观状态下表达的观点。（他从一种分离的、客观的立场来理解我。）
He understands my words but not the way I feel.
但是他只理解我的话，不理解我的感受。（他能够理解我所说的，但那不是我的感受。）
Barrett-Lennard also has a specific conceptual formulation of empathy upon which he based his items. While it definitely overlaps with the definition given, it is sufficiently different to warrant its quotation:
巴瑞特-伦纳德（Barrett-Lennard）还有一份详细的关于共情的概念性陈述，他制定的问卷条目便是从这个基础上而来。尽管这个陈述与之前给出的定义会有重叠，但它也有足够的差异来证明以下的引述：
Qualitatively it [empathic understanding] is an active process of desiring to know the full, present and changing awareness of another person, of reaching out to receive his communication and meaning, and of translating his words and signs into experienced meaning that matches at least those aspects of his awareness that are most important to him at the moment. It is an experiencing of the consciousness 'behind' another's outward communication, but with continuous awareness that this consciousness is originating and proceeding in the other (Barrett- Lennard, 1962).
定性地说，[共情式理解]是一个主动的过程，包括想要知道另一个人完整的、当前的和变化的意识，去努力去接收他的沟通信息和含义，并把他的言语和非言语翻译成他所体验到的含义（至少与当下对于他的意识最重要的那一部分相匹配）。这一过程是理解他人公开谈话的“背后”所表现的意识（这是一种对他人的外部交流“背后”的意识的体验），但是时刻谨记这一意识在他人身上一直产生并延伸。(Barrett- Lennard, 1962)
Then there is the Accurate Empathy Scale, devised by Truax and others for use by raters (Truax, 1967). Even small portions of recorded interviews can be reliably rated by this scale. The nature of the scale may be indicated by giving the definition of Stage 1, which is the lowest level of empathic understanding, and Stage 8, which is a very high (though not the highest) degree of empathy.
特鲁瓦克斯（Truax）及其同事设计了一个由评定者使用的精确共情量表（Accurate Empathy Scale）（Truax, 1967）。甚至非常少量的会谈记录都能够由这个量表可靠地评定。这个量表的性质可以由几个阶段的定义来表示：阶段1，是最低水平的共情式理解；阶段8，是非常高（尽管不是最高）的共情程度。
Here is Stage 1: Therapist seems completely unaware of even the most conspicuous of the client's feelings. His responses are not appropriate to the mood and content of the client's feelings. His responses are not appropriate to the mood and content of the client's statements and there is no determinable quality of empathy, hence, no accuracy whatsoever. The therapist may be bored and disinterested or actively offering advice, but he is not communicating an awareness of the client's current feelings (Truax, 1967, pp. 556-7).
这里是第 1 阶段：治疗师似乎连来访者最显而易见的感受也完全没有觉察。对于来访者感受的情绪和内容来说，他的回应并不恰当。对于来访者陈述的情绪和内容来说，他的回应也不恰当，而且没有可测定的共情性质，因此，没有任何精确度可言。这位治疗师可能感到厌倦而缺乏兴趣，也可能在积极地提供建议，但他并没有在传达对来访者当前感受的觉察（Truax，1967，pp. 556-7）。
Stage 8 is defined as follows:
第 8 阶段定义如下：
Therapist accurately interprets all the client's present acknowledged feelings. He also uncovers the most deeply shrouded of the client's feeling areas, voicing meanings in the client's experience of which the client is scarcely aware ... He moves into feelings and experiences that are only hinted at by the client and does so with sensitivity and accuracy. The content that comes to life may be new but it is not alien. While the therapist in Stage 8 makes mistakes, mistakes do not have a jarring note but are covered by the tentative character of the response. Also the therapist is sensitive to his mistakes and quickly alters or changes his responses in midstream, indicating that he more clearly knows what is being talked about and what is being sought after in the client's own explorations. The therapist reflects a togetherness with the patient in tentative trial and error exploration. His voice tone reflects the seriousness and depth of his empathic grasp. (Truax, 1967, p. 566).
治疗师能够准确解读来访者当前承认的所有感受。他还会揭露来访者裹藏最深的感受领域，说出来访者体验中他自己很少觉察到的含义……他进入来访者略微提及的那些情感和体验，并做到敏感而准确。呈现出来的内容可能是新的，但并不陌生。尽管第 8 阶段的治疗师也会犯错，但不会是格格不入的错误，并且，由于他们的回应是试探性的，所以这些错误得以被掩护。另外，治疗师对错误很敏感，会很快在中途调整或改变其回应，表明他更清楚地了解了谈论的内容，更清楚地了解了来访者在他自己的探索中追求什么。治疗师在试验性的尝试中反映与来访者在一起的感觉。他的语调反应了共情领会的严肃性和深度。（Truax, 1967, p. 566）。
I have wished to indicate by these examples that the empathic process can be defined in theoretical, conceptual, subjective and operational ways. Even so, we have not reached the limits of its base.
我曾希望通过这些例子来表明，共情过程可以用理论的，概念性的，主观的，可操作的方式定义。即使这样，我们也仍然未曾达到其本质的极限。
A Definition for Contemporary Persons
当代人的定义
Eugene Gendlin and others have recently been involved in a helping community enterprise called "Changes" which has many implications for dealing with the alienated and counter-culture members of the chaos which we call urban living. Of particular interest here is the "Rap Manual" which has been developed to aid the ordinary person in learning "how to help with the other person's process."
尤金·简德林和其他人最近参与了一个被称作“改变”的互助团体项目，这个项目在对所谓的混乱的城市生活中被疏远和反文化的成员造成了不少影响。让人特别感兴趣的是，这里有“交谈手册”（Rap Manual），用于帮助普通人学习“如何协助另一个人的改变”。
This Manual starts out with a section on "Absolute Listening." Some excerpts give the flavor:
这本手册以关于“ 纯粹的聆听”的章节开始。一些摘录展示了其风格：
This is not laying trips on people. You only listen and say back the other person's thing, step by step, just as that person seems to have it at that moment. You never mix into it any of your own things or ideas, never lay on the other person anything that person didn't express ... To show that you understand exactly, make a sentence or two which gets exactly at the personal meaning this person wanted to put across. This might be in your own words, usually, but use that person's own words for the touchy main things (Gendlin and Hendricks, undated).
这并非为人们定制路线。你仅仅是聆听并反馈另一个人说的事情，一步步地，好像就在此刻经历着它的那个人。你绝不混进任何你自己的事情或观点，绝不将那个人未表达的任何东西加给他……为了表明你的准确理解，用一两句话对那个人想要说明的个人意义进行澄清。这可以是用你自己的话，通常如此，但对于敏感的重要事件，用那个人自己的话来表达（Gendlin 和 Hendricks，日期未注明）。
It continues in this same vein, with many detailed suggestions, including ideas on "How to know when you're doing it right."
这一手册全文都是这样的风格，有许多具体的建议，包括“如何知道你正在做的是对的。”
So it seems clear that an empathic way of being, though highly subtle conceptually, can also be described in terms which are perfectly understandable by contemporary youth, or citizens of a beleaguered inner city. It is a broad-ranging conception.
因此，似乎很清楚共情式的存在方式，尽管在概念上非常微妙，也能够以当代的年轻人或城市人所理解的方式来描述。这是一个广义上的概念。
General Research Findings
一般研究结果
What have we come to know about empathy through research based on the instruments mentioned above, and others which have been devised? The answer is that we have learned a great deal and I will try to present some of these learnings, giving first some of the general findings which are of interest. I will reserve until later an analysis of the effects of an empathic climate on the dynamics and behavior of the recipient. Here then are some of the general statements which can be made with assurance.
通过使用上文提到的工具或其他我们设计的工具，我们对共情已经了解了多少?答案是我们已经学到了很多，我将尝试来呈现这些发现中的一部分，首先呈现的会是其中有趣的那些部分。在分析共情气氛对接受者的动力和行为的影响之前，我将有所保留。这里是一些非常有把握的一般性陈述。
The ideal therapist is first of all empathic. When psychotherapists of many different orientations describe their concept of the ideal therapist, the therapist they would like to become, they are in high agreement in giving empathy the highest ranking out of twelve variables. This statement is based on a study by Raskin (1974) of 83 practicing therapists of at least eight different therapeutic approaches. The definition of the empathic quality was very similar to that used in this paper. This study corroborates and strengthens an earlier research by Fiedler (1950b). So we may conclude that therapists recognize that the most important factor in being a therapist is "trying, as sensitively and as accurately as he can, to understand the client, from the latter's own point of view" (Raskin, 1974).
理想的治疗师首要的品质就是共情。当许多不同取向的心理治疗师描述他们对于理想治疗师的概念，描述他们想成为什么样的治疗师时，大家几乎高度一致地认为在十二个变量中，共情应排在第一位。这个说法是基于拉斯金（Raskin，1974）对于至少8个不同治疗取向的83名一线治疗师的研究。此研究中共情质量的定义和这篇论文里所使用的定义是非常相似的。这个研究进一步验证了费德勒（Fiedler，1950b）早期的一项研究。因此我们可以得出结论：治疗师意识到了成为一个治疗师的首要品质就是“努力、尽可能敏锐而准确地，站在来访者的角度来理解来访者”（Raskin, 1974）。
Empathy is correlated with self-exploration and process movement. It has been learned that a relationship climate with a high degree of empathy is associated with various aspects of process and progress in the therapy. Such a climate is definitely related to a high degree of self- exploration in the client (Bergin and Strupp, 1972; Kurtz and Grummon, 1972; Tausch, Bastine, Friese and Sander, 1970).
共情与自我探索和治疗进展是相联系的。我们已经了解到，具有高度共情的关系氛围与治疗中进展的许多方面密切相关。这样的氛围很明显与来访者的高水平的自我探索也相关（(Bergin and Strupp, 1972; Kurtz and Grummon, 1972; Tausch, Bastine, Friese and Sander, 1970)）。
Empathy early in the relationship predicts later success. The degree of empathy which exists and will exist in the relationship can be determined very early, in the fifth or even the second interview. Such early measurements are predictive of the later success or lack of success in therapy (Barrett-Lennard, 1962; Tausch, 1973). The implication of these findings is that we could avoid a great deal of unsuccessful therapy, by measuring the therapist's empathy early on.
一段关系中早期的共情可以预测这段关系成功与否。一段关系中出现和将要出现的共情水平可以在很早就能确定下来，基本上第五次甚至第二次面谈就可以确定。这个早期的测量对于后来的治疗成功是有预测作用的（Barrett-Lennard, 1962; Tausch, 1973）。因此，这些研究发现告诉我们，通过在早期测量咨询师的共情水平，可以避免大量不成功的治疗。
The client comes to perceive more empathy in successful cases. In successful cases, the client's perception of the empathic quality in the relationship, and that quality as rated by objective judges, increases over time, although the increase is not very great (Cartwright and Lerner, 1966; Van Der Veen, 1970).
来访者在成功的治疗中会感觉到更多的共情。在成功的案例中，咨访关系中的来访者感知到的共情特质会越来越多，而这样的特质是由客观标准所评定的，尽管这种增加不是非常明显（Cartwright and Lerner, 1966; Van Der Veen, 1970）。
Understanding is provided by the therapist, not drawn from him. We know that empathy is something offered by the therapist, and not simply elicited by some particular type of client (Tausch, et al, 1970; Truax and Carkhuff, 1967). There have been speculations to the contrary, that an appealing or seductive client might be responsible for drawing understanding from the therapist. The evidence does not support this. Indeed, the degree of empathy in a relationship can be rather accurately inferred simply by listening to the therapist responses, without any knowledge of the client's statements (Quinn, 1953). So if an empathic climate exists in a relationship, the probability is high that the therapist is responsible.
理解是由治疗师提供的，而不是被索取的。我们知道共情是治疗师应具有的特质，而不是由于某类来访者而引发出来的（Tausch, et al, 1970; Truax and Carkhuff, 1967）。我们已有对反面案例的思考，认为一位有魅力的来访者可能是获得治疗师的理解的原因。但没有证据支持这一点。事实上，一段关系中的共情水平可以被相当精确地推测——仅仅通过倾听治疗师的反馈，而不需要对来访者的陈述有所了解（Quinn, 1953）。所以，如果一段关系中存在共情的氛围，那么很可能是咨询师具有共情这一特质。
The more experienced the therapist, the more likely he is to be empathic. Experienced therapists offer a higher degree of empathy to their clients than less experienced, whether we are assessing this quality through the client's perception or through the ears of qualified judges (Barrett- Lennard, 1962; Fiedler, 1949,
咨询师越有经验，那么他越可能有共情的特质。经验丰富的治疗师比经验不足的治疗师会给来访者提供更高水平的共情，不管我们是通过来访者的感知，还是通过有资质的评判者来评估这一特质。显然，随着时间流逝，治疗师会越来越接近他们的理想标准，也会变得越来越善于理解。
Empathy is a special quality in a relationship, and therapists offer definitely more of it than even helpful friends (Van Der Veen, 1970). This is reassuring.
在一段关系中，共情是一种特殊的品质，甚至比起有帮助的好朋友，治疗师提供的共情要多得多（Van Der Veen, 1970）。这是令人欣慰的。
The better integrated the therapist is within himself, the higher the degree of empathy he exhibits. Personality disturbance in the therapist goes along with a lower empathic understanding, but when he is free from discomfort and confident in interpersonal relationships, he offers more of understanding (Bergin and Jasper, 1969; Bergin and Solomon, 1970). As I have considered this evidence, and also my own experience in the training of therapists, I come to the somewhat uncomfortable conclusion that the more psychologically mature and integrated the therapist is as a person, the more helpful is the relationship he provides. This puts a heavy demand on the therapist as a person.
一位治疗师的内部整合得越好，那么他展现的共情水平也越高。治疗师的人格困扰往往与低水平的共情理解一起出现，但是，一旦他解决了不适应的问题并在人际关系中感到自信，他将提供更多的共情理解（Bergin and Jasper, 1969; Bergin and Solomon, 1970)。根据我对这个观点的思考，还有我培训治疗师时的个人经验，我得出多少有些让人不舒服的结论：治疗师作为一人，心理越成熟、整合程度越高，那么他在关系中就越有帮助。这就对治疗师作为一个人提出了很高的要求。
Experienced therapists often fall far short of being empathic. In spite of what has been said of experienced therapists, they differ sharply in the degree of empathy they offer. Raskin (1974) showed that when the recorded interviews of six experienced therapists were rated by other experienced therapists, the differences on twelve variables were significant at the .001 level, and empathy was second in the extent of difference. The outstanding characteristic of the client- centered therapist was his empathy. Other approaches had as their outstanding characteristic their cognitive quality, or therapist-directedness, and the like. So, though therapists regarded empathic listening as the most important element in their ideal, in their actual practice they often fall far short of this. In fact the ratings of the recorded interviews of these six expert therapists by 83 other therapists came up with a surprising finding. In only two cases did the work of the experts correlate positively with the description of the ideal therapist. In four cases the correlation was negative, the most extreme being a -.66! So much for therapy as it is practiced!
往往有经验丰富的治疗师离共情还差得很远。虽然有些治疗师经验丰富，但他们所提供的共情水平相差很多。拉斯金（Raskin，1974）曾显示，将6名经验丰富的治疗师的面谈记录给其他老练的咨询师评价，12个变量的差异（理想与实际）在0.001水平上达到显著性，共情在其中排名第二。来访者中心疗法的治疗师最鲜明的特色质就是他的共情。其他取向的疗法则将认知品质或治疗师指导等类似的东西作为他们的鲜明特色。所以，虽然治疗师认为共情性的倾听是他们的理想中最重要的因素，但是在他们的实际操作中，他们往往离这一步还差很远。事实上，由83名治疗师所评定的那6名专家治疗师的面谈记录，给出了一个令人惊讶的发现，只有在2个案例中，专家的工作才和理想的治疗师描述有正相关，在另外4个案例中则为负相关，最大值达到-0.66。治疗实践的情况就是如此！
Clients are better judges of the degree of empathy than are therapists. Perhaps then it is not too surprising that therapists prove to be rather inaccurate in assessing their own degree of empathy in a relationship. The client's perception of this quality agrees rather well with that of unbiased judges listening to the recordings, but the agreement between clients and therapists, or judges and therapists, is low (Rogers, Gendlin, Kiesier and Truax, 1967, Chs. 5, 8). Perhaps, if we wish to become better therapists, we should let our clients tell us whether we are understanding them accurately!
相对于治疗师来说，来访者可能是一个更好的共情评价者。也许不那么令人惊讶，在评价他们自己在关系中的共情水平时，治疗师被证明是相当地不准确。来访者对这一品质的觉知与不带偏见的听取录音的评定员相当一致，但是，来访者与治疗师、评定员者与治疗师之间的一致性却相当低。（Rogers, Gendlin, Kiesier and Truax, 1967, Chs. 5, 8）。也许，如果我们想成为更好的治疗师，我们应让来访者告诉我们是否正确地理解了他们！
Brilliance and diagnostic perceptiveness are unrelated to empathy. It is important to know that the degree to which the therapist creates an empathic climate is not related to his academic performance or intellectual competence (Bergin and Jasper, 1969; Bergin and Solomon, 1970). Neither is it related to the accuracy of his perception of the individual or his diagnostic competence. In fact it may be negatively related to the latter (Fiedler, 1953). This is a most important finding. If neither academic brilliance nor diagnostic skill is significant, then clearly an empathic quality belongs in a different realm of discourse from most clinical thinking-- psychological and psychiatric. I believe we are reluctant to accept the implications.
聪明和诊断的洞察力和共情无关。我们要知道，治疗师所创造的共情氛围与他的学术成就或智力才能无关（Bergin and Jasper, 1969; Bergin and Solomon, 1970）。与他对个体的洞察力或他的诊断能力也没有关系。事实上，它与后者可能是负相关的（Fiedler, 1953）。这是一项最为重要的发现。如果学术才华或诊断技能都是不重要的，那么很明显共情品质应归入一个不同的讨论领域，离开最典型的临床思维——心理学的和精神病学的。我认为我们还不情愿接受这一暗示。
An empathic way of being can be learned from empathic persons. Perhaps the most important statement of all is that the ability to be accurately empathic is something which can be developed by training. Therapists, parents and teachers can be helped to become empathic. This is especially likely to occur if their teachers and supervisors are themselves individuals of sensitive understanding (Aspy, 1972; Aspy and Roebuck, 1975; Bergin and Solomon, 1970; Blocksma, 1951; Guerney, Andronico and Guerney, 1970). It is most encouraging to know that this subtle, elusive quality, of utmost importance in therapy, is not something one is "born with", but can be learned, and learned most rapidly in an empathic climate. Perhaps only two basic elements or therapeutic effectiveness can profit from cognitive and experiential training: empathy and congruence.
共情的存在方式可以从共情之人身上学习到。也许这些陈述中最重要的，精确共情的能力是某种可以通过训练而发展的东西。治疗师、父母和教师可以被帮助变得共情。如果他们的老师和督导自己是容易理解他人的人，这尤其可能发生（Aspy, 1972; Aspy and Roebuck, 1975; Bergin and Solomon, 1970; Blocksma, 1951; Guerney, Andronico and Guerney, 1970）。最鼓舞人心的是，知道这种微妙的、难捉摸的品质，在治疗中最为重要的品质，不是某种“与生俱来”的东西，而是能够学习到的，而且在共情的气氛中可以快速地习得。也许只有两种基本的元素或疗效因子能够得益于认知和经验的训练：共情和一致性。
The Consequences of an Empathic Climate
共情氛围的影响
So much for the knowledge which has been gained about empathy. But what effects do a series of deeply empathic responses have upon the recipient? Here the evidence is quite overwhelming. Empathy is clearly related to positive outcome. From schizophrenic patients to pupils in ordinary classrooms; from clients of a counseling center to teachers in training; from neurotics in Germany to neurotics in the United States, the evidence is the same, and it indicates that the more the therapist or teacher is sensitively understanding, the more likely is constructive learning and change (Aspy, 1972, Ch. 4; Aspy and Roebuck, 1975; Barrett-Lennard, 1962; Bergin and Jasper, 1969; Bergin and Strupp, 1972; Halkides, 1958; Kurtz and Grummon, 1972; Mullen and Abeles, 1971; Rogers, et al, 1967, Chs. 5, 9; Tausch, Bastine, Bommert, Minsel and Nickel, 1972; Tausch, et al, 1970; Truax, 1966). As stated by Bergin and Strupp (1972), various studies "demonstrate a positive correlation between therapist empathy, patient self-exploration, and independent criteria of patient change" (p. 25).
共情相关的知识就了解到这里。然而，一连串的深度共情反应在接受者身上会产生什么影响呢？这里给出的证据是十分有力的。共情明显与积极的治疗效果相关。从精神分裂症患者到普通教室里的学生，从咨询中心的来访者到培训中心的教师；从德国的神经官能症患者到美国的患者，证据显示一概如此，这表明了治疗师或者教师越是敏感地理解他人，有建设性的学习和改变就越可能发生 (Aspy, 1972, Ch. 4; Aspy and Roebuck, 1975; Barrett-Lennard, 1962; Bergin and Jasper, 1969; Bergin and Strupp, 1972; Halkides, 1958; Kurtz and Grummon, 1972; Mullen and Abeles, 1971; Rogers, et al, 1967, Chs. 5, 9; Tausch, Bastine, Bommert, Minsel and Nickel, 1972; Tausch, et al, 1970; Truax, 1966)。 就如Bergin和Strupp (1972)所说，不同的研究“证明了在治疗师的共情、病人的自我探索与独立的病人改变标准之间存在正相关”（p.25）。
Yet I believe far too little attention has been given these findings. This deceptively simple empathic interaction which we have been discussing has many and profound consequences. I want to discuss these at some length.
但我以为对这些研究发现给予的关注还是太少了。我们已经在讨论的看似简单的共情互动，其实有许多深刻的影响。我想用一些篇幅来讨论这些。
In the first place, it dissolves alienation. For the moment, at least, the recipient finds himself/ herself a connected part of the human race. Though it may not be articulated clearly, the experience goes something like this. "I have been talking about hidden things, partly veiled even from myself, feelings that are strange, possibly abnormal, feelings I have never communicated to another, nor even clearly to myself. And yet he has understood, understood them even more clearly than I do. If he knows that I am talking about, what I mean, then to this degree I am not so strange, or alien, or set apart. I make sense to another human being. So I am in touch with, even in relationship with, others. I am no longer an isolate."
首先，它消除了疏离感。至少，接受者暂时感到自己和人类有了相连的部分。尽管可能这种连接并不清晰，但是给人的体验是这样的。“我曾谈及一些隐秘的、甚至对我自己也部分隐秘的事情，一些奇怪的、甚至不正常的情感，一些我从没与别人沟通过的情感，甚至和自己也没有清楚沟通过。然而，他理解了，甚至比我更清楚地理解它们。如果他知道我正在谈什么，我的意思是，这样我便不是那么怪异、像外星人，或者离群索居。我对另一个人来说有意义。这样我就在和他人接触，甚至是保持交际。我不再是一个孤立的人。”
Perhaps this explains one of the major findings of our study of psychotherapy with schizophrenics. We found that those patients receiving from their therapists a high degree of accurate empathy as rated by unbiased judges, showed the sharpest reduction in schizophrenic pathology as measured by the MMPI (Rogers, et al, 1967, p. 85). This suggests that the sensitive understanding by another may have been the most potent element in bringing the schizophrenic out of his estrangement, and into the world of relatedness. Jung has said that the schizophrenic ceases to be schizophrenic when he meets someone by whom he feels understood. Our study provides empirical evidence in support of that statement.
这也许解释了我们对精神分裂症患者心理治疗研究的主要发现。我们发现，那些从他们的治疗师那里获得如同公正的法官做出的评定那样高度准确共情的病人身上，显示出由MMPI测得的精神分裂症病理症状的急剧减少（Rogers, et al, 1967, p. 85）。这暗示着，另一人做出的敏感的理解可能是把精神分裂症患者带离隔阂，走入相互关联的世界的最有效元素。荣格说过，当精神分裂症患者遇到了那个能从他身上感受到理解的人，他就停止精神分裂了。我们的研究为荣格的陈述提供了实证证据。
Other studies, both of schizophrenics and of counseling center clients, show that low empathy is related to a slight worsening in adjustment or pathology. Here, too, the findings make sense. It is as if the individual concludes "If no one understands me, if no one can grasp what these experiences are like, then I am indeed in a bad way more abnormal than I thought." One of Laing's patients states this vividly in describing earlier contacts with psychiatrists:
其他研究，不论是对于精神分裂症患者还是心理咨询中心的来访者，都显示了低共情与其适应或病理的轻微恶化相关。这里的发现也很有意义。这就好像个体得出结论：“如果没有人理解我，如果没有人能领会这些经历是什么样的，那么我的确在比自己以为的更不正常的糟糕处境里。”莱因（Laing）的一个病人在描述他早前与一个精神病医生的接触时生动地说明了这点：
It's a most terrifying feeling to realize that the doctor can't see the real you, that he can't understand what you feel and that he's just going ahead with his own ideas. I would start to feel that I was invisible or maybe not there at all (Laing, 1965, p. 166).
意识到医生不能理解真正的你，他不能理解你的感受，而且他只是跟着自己的想法前进，这是最令人恐惧的感觉。我开始觉得他看不见我，甚至我可能根本不在那儿（Laing, 1965, p. 166）。
Another meaning of empathic understanding to the recipient is that someone values him, cares, accepts the person that he is. It might seem that we have here stepped into another area, and that we are no longer speaking of empathy. But this is not so. It is impossible accurately to sense the perceptual world of another person unless you value that person and his world - unless you in some sense care. Hence the message comes through to the recipient that "this other individual trusts me, thinks I'm worthwhile. Perhaps I am worth something. Perhaps I could value myself. Perhaps I could care for myself."
对接受者来说，共情式理解的另一个含义是：有人重视他，在意和接受他如其所是的样子。这看上去似乎我们进入了另一个领域，我们说的也不再是共情。但情况并非如此。除非你重视那个人和他的世界，除非你在某种意义上在乎他，否则，精确地感知他人的感知世界是不可能的。因此，传递给接受者的信息是“这个其他个体信任我，认为我有价值。也许我是有价值的，也许我能重视我自己。也许我能喜欢我自己。”
